The Denver and Durham communities are grieving the tragic loss of Harry Ray, a respected educator and musician who died following a car accident. Known to many as Stokes, Harry’s influence stretched far beyond the classroom, shaping generations of students and musicians with his compassion, humor, and steadfast leadership.
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Harry was the Director of Bands at Southern School of Energy & Sustainability and a cherished member of the Durham Public Schools music department. A proud graduate of Elizabeth City State University, he was admired for his deep understanding of music and his ability to inspire both excellence and unity in every ensemble he led. His career reflected his passion for youth development, mentorship, and the transformative power of music.
Friends and colleagues described him as calm under pressure, devoted to his students, and endlessly giving of his time and knowledge. He built not just bands, but families—communities of young people who learned discipline, empathy, and confidence under his guidance.
Harry is survived by his loving wife, Morgan Ray, and a wide circle of family, students, and friends who will remember him for his kindness, humor, and unwavering dedication to music education. His legacy will continue to echo in every note played by those he taught.
