It is with heavy hearts and profound sadness that the community of North Haven, Connecticut, mourns the sudden and unexpected passing of Bob Demayo. A beloved figure whose legacy is woven into the fabric of local life, Bob passed away suddenly, leaving behind a deep void in the lives of those who knew and loved him.
Bob Demayo was more than a name — he was an institution in North Haven. Known for his warm personality, steadfast work ethic, and enduring impact on youth athletics, Bob spent decades shaping not only athletes but also leaders, friends, and teammates. As a legendary high school baseball coach, his influence reached far beyond the field. With over six decades of coaching experience, Bob Demayo became synonymous with North Haven High School baseball, where he led the program to extraordinary success and became a mentor to generations of players.
Throughout his remarkable career, Coach Demayo earned widespread respect not just for his strategic brilliance and winning record, but for the integrity, discipline, and compassion he instilled in every young person who wore a North Haven jersey. Under his guidance, student-athletes didn’t just learn how to play the game — they learned how to conduct themselves with character, respect others, and strive for excellence in all areas of life. His leadership was never about ego, but always about building a culture of support, trust, and hard work.
Beyond the diamond, Bob was deeply involved in the North Haven community. He was a familiar face at local events, a trusted mentor, and a source of encouragement to countless individuals over the years. Those who knew him personally will remember his booming laugh, his love of storytelling, and the genuine care he showed for everyone around him. His generosity, kindness, and dedication made a lasting impact that extended far beyond the game of baseball.
Bob’s sudden passing has left the town of North Haven in shock. For many, it feels as though a piece of the town’s identity has been lost. He was not just a coach — he was a community hero, a role model, and a friend. The tributes pouring in from former players, colleagues, and residents speak to the deep admiration and affection so many felt for him.
Bob Demayo’s legacy will live on in the lives he touched, the players he mentored, and the town he helped shape with his unwavering commitment. He leaves behind a community that is stronger, more compassionate, and more connected because of his presence.
In this time of grief, we remember and honor the life of Bob Demayo — a man who gave so much of himself to others, and whose sudden death has left an indelible mark on all who knew him. He will be deeply missed and never forgotten.
